Nita Townsend and Rhona Brown
Interviewed
in 1994 by Ralph Thomson
You can find out
more about Nita and see photographs by following this link.
Ralph: Nita
Townsend and Rhona Brown who are sisters. When
did you move to Ludham?
Rhona: In
1918
Ralph: Why
did you come here?
Rhona:
Father came and bought the practice up here. He
was the doctor of Ludham for some time.
Nita: When
I came up, I was nine years old and we came on the
first of July and I remember coming and looking at the
garden and looking at the river which was in the
garden – our own private river – it was so exciting to
me, I thought I’d never lived before.
Rhona: I
was disgusted because I had left my lovely school,
that I liked so much, Bournemouth High School – all my
friends and everything! We had to come up
because of the war and they were afraid of an invasion
or anything if I were left down there so they brought
me up here – against my will!
Ralph: It must
have been quite a contrast – you two coming up from
Cranborne in Dorset to Ludham, which was a far more
remote sort of village in those days.
Rhona: It is
exactly the same now as it was then.
Nita: Oh it isn’t
really! It was lovely then because I was only
nine and I had been rather an unhealthy child and so
my father who was a doctor said, ‘she should go wild
for a whole year!’ and I thought going wild on that
lovely river and in that gorgeous garden. Ooh,
it was heaven!
Ralph: The
social set-up in Ludham would have been very different
to what it was in Cranborne where there were so many
of the aristocracy living.
Rhona: Yes,
it was! We had lots of tennis parties and so on
which we enjoyed and, of course, the river! That
was a great treat for us in various old boats that we
acquired gradually and I went on the water a lot
myself. We had a lot of visitors staying with
us; friends and relations. We used to take them
on the water too. Not frightfully exciting but
just nice.
Ralph: Who
was your circle of friends in the Ludham area in those
days?
Rhona: Not
many!
Nita: No,
we didn’t have many, did we?
Rhona:
There were the young Boardmans – they were about our
age group.
Nita: Of
course, our father was a doctor and in those days a
doctor was very, very different from a doctor
today. He had to do it entirely by himself – he
made up his medicines himself and he had a radius of
about six miles all the way round and very little
money and that was the operative word.
Rhona:
Money didn’t bother us.
Nita: No,
money didn’t bother us a hoot but it would have been
nice to have had a little bit more. We had the
most terrible old boats because we couldn’t afford
more. I know we had a motor-boat which, when you
wound it up with a handle, it used to back-fire and it
nearly killed me once – nearly broke my wrist when I
was going for a music exam the next day. But it
was just all right. I remember that very
well. It was very painful! You see my
father, being a doctor, if we went on holiday, in
those days you had to pay for the Locum and you had to
pay for his board and lodging which made it damned
expensive and so, what we used to do, having a house
on the river, we used to let the house because we
could get quite a good price for it as it was on the
river, and one day, while it was let, we had some
great friends – Stuart Boardman who lived in the big
house up on the hill – and he was very matey with us
and he would just walk in the front door – the door
was always open in those days – no-one had a key for
anything and he came in apparently and, in the hall,
we had a gong which we used to ring before a
meal. So he came in and banged this gong, walked
into the sitting-room and found some strange people
sitting there. Very odd! Must have been
quite a shock for him. However, he and these
people were mates for ever more.
Ralph: Your
father had quite an interesting old car to travel
round his practice in.
Nita: Oh
yes! He came up in an old Swift which was born
in 1906 and it hadn’t got any doors and it was a
two-seater – no dicky or anything like that – and if a
passenger went out with him, the other person sat
where the door would be in a modern car and I often
used to sit there and about two years after we came,
he went out one day and when he got near Potter
Heigham Bridge, I think it was, suddenly the steering
absolutely went! He was left practically falling
into the river – not quite, though, luckily and he
always said that if I’d been sitting there on the
little side bit, it would have gone over. So it
was lucky!
Ralph: Your
father had quite an interesting start to his career as
a doctor because he didn’t set off with that in mind.
Rhona: Yes,
he went into an office but that didn’t last very long
because he played about a bit but eventually he
trained as a doctor.
Nita: Yes,
but while he was there for a very short time, he was
in an office of Shipbrokers and he had to do bills of
lady with diamonds on and he got a bit tired of these
diamonds so he said, ‘Oh, we’ll have a few hearts or
spades or something for a change,’ and ...
Rhona: ... boss
had him into the office and said – the boss was
actually a friend of the family - that was how he had
got into the office – ‘I’m afraid, my boy, we haven’t
enough scope here for you.’ So, of course, he
went and eventually he got what he wanted and was
allowed to train at the London Hospital as a doctor.
Nita: He
trained on about 12/6d in those days a week and he
hadn’t got any money for anything except just living
and he had a landlady who – he always kept a bottle of
whiskey just for medicinal purposes – and the lady of
the house apparently thought, this is rather nice so
when he was out, she used to drink it. So one
day he put a little bit of powder in it – something
that made her ‘go quickly’ and she was rather
disgusted next day. She said, ‘What have you
done?’ She’d got up early to go to the loo and
had stayed there all day. Anyway, that was the
end of her drinking his whiskey.
Ralph: So
from there, he moved on to a practice in Dorset?
Nita :
Well, not quite! He went to another hospital –
they had to ‘walk the wards’ or something they used to
do in those days. We are talking about the turn
of the century and he went to Yarmouth Hospital to
‘walk the wards’
Rhona: One
day he wanted to go over to Catfield so he cycled but
when he got as far as the First and Last pub, he came
off his bike and scraped his knee very badly and so
they went in there and there was an old girl in there
who said, ‘Oh yes, you must have that washed up!’ and
she did it for him and said, ‘I think you’d better go
back to the hospital and have that seen to
properly. You go and ask for Doctor Brown!
I hear he’s a very good doctor. My daughter’s a
nurse there.’ So he said, ‘All right, I will!’
Nita: I
hope he did.
Ralph:
After his work in the Yarmouth Hospital he then found
his next practice in Dorset?
Rhona: Yes,
someone told him they wanted a doctor down there very
badly – they wanted, you know, a decent doctor very
badly. He had two promises of the loan of a
practice – he had no money, he had to borrow – one was
his brother-in-law but when he decided to marry – my
mother and father were going to wait for a bit but
then they decided that as he was coming out of
nowhere, it would be a good thing to come as a married
man and not just a bachelor. That was the idea
and this put the old boy off and he said, ‘Well, if
you’re going to get married, I’m not going to... r...
Nita: ‘...
you shouldn’t marry at all at your age... ‘
Rhona:
...and then someone else said they would and then when
they met – I don’t know how they met – my father found
that he was a bit batty, he didn’t know what he was
doing at all. So all that fell through and he
went down and...
Nita: They
had just one hundred pounds in the bank! Of
course, one hundred pounds in 1902 was quite a lot of
money.
Rhona: My
mother got her trousseau out of it, which was probably
only her wedding dress or suit and they bought the
linen for the house too and all that came out of it
and then they sat down and waited until somebody came
to see him as a patient. One day, a Daimler car
came into the village – there were no cars about at
all then – it was chauffeur-driven and it had a
collision with a local bicycle and so they brought the
man into the surgery to see my father and apparently
he wasn’t very badly hurt but the owner of the car was
the Lord of the Manor – he owned most of the village
too, the houses and everything like that – and that’s
how he met up with Lord Salisbury and after that, he
became a patient which was very good for his prestige
starting in life.
Ralph: As a
result of that, he obviously met lots more
well-connected people in Cranborne
Rhona:
There were an awful lot around there.
Nita: It
was full of nobility, wasn’t it? Very snobby!
Ralph: Why
did he move from Cranborne to Ludham?
Rhona:
Well, it was a better practice. He had a family
that he was educating then, you know what I mean, and
his sisters and his brother lived up here.
Nita: His
father had been the Vicar of Catfield which was only a
few miles away, for years and years and years.
He was coming back to where he knew.
Rhona: He
was born in Dilham, anyway.
Ralph: So
he would have taken over the practice from Doctor
Gordon, whom you probably knew quite well.
Rhona: I
didn’t take to Doctor Gordon very much.
Ralph: He
lived at Ludham Manor?
Rhona: Yes,
I haven’t get anything bad to say about him but I
wouldn’t have liked him for my doctor – he took
something out of someone’s eye with a penknife, I’ve
been told. He had this old boy who had something
in his eye and he went to the doctor about it and he
got out his pen-knife and said, ‘Oh we’ll soon put
that right,’ – he was a bombastic person – and he used
his penknife without any disinfectant or anything.
Ralph: So
he must have travelled about the village in a pony and
trap?
Rhona: I
think he must have. He didn’t have a car that I
know of. He couldn’t drive a car, That I do
know.
Ralph: I
suppose in those days, being in a country-practice
would have been very
unlike today with
an up-to-date modern surgery and numerous doctors and
assistants.
Rhona: Oh
Lord, yes!
Nita: And
he made up all his own medicines – all in bottles and
things like that.
Rhona: And
he was frequently called out of Church.
Nita: And
at night, a terrible lot! In those days, the
doctor brought practically all the little babies into
the world. Now they go to hospital but he
brought the whole of Ludham into the world in those
days and they all came in the middle of the
night. Don’t ask me why but they did!
Ralph: But
then, I suppose, he travelled to other villages like
Catfield and Hickling.
Nita: Oh
yes! At Hickling he had a surgery room where he
would go regularly once a week and then he went as far
a Horstead – he had a patient at Horstead that he
visited every day by request and eventually – she was
dying of cancer – she died and he had to send the bill
to the executors and he sent a bill for every day,
five shillings a visit and he had to go quite a lot of
miles to get there and they complained. I’m glad
to say he won. Can you believe it?
Ralph: Of
course, in those days, there was no such thing as a
surgery at your house?
Rhona: No,
people complain about it nowadays but they didn’t have
the money we had or anybody else had. I don’t
know what other doctors did round about. Much
the same thing! You see, they didn’t use the
surgery an awful lot because my father went round
seeing people. There’s much more surgery now
than the other way round, I think.
Ralph: In
those days, people hadn’t got the transport to get to
the doctor’s if they weren’t well.
Rhona: No,
exactly! I’ve often thought they could have made
one of the garages into a surgery – put a window in
and made one – I really think they could have done so,
perhaps.
Nita: Well,
not in those days!
Rhona:
Well, things were so different then.
Nita: He
went on working – then the war came and he couldn’t
give up then and he was getting rather old by then but
he had to stay on and he eventually gave up practice
in 1948, just before the National Health came
in. He was very pleased to do it. He said,
‘National Health! I’m not going to be looked
after by the government! I’m going to do it
myself! He was like that. He wasn’t going
to be bombarded by the National Insurance and all that
tomfoolery.
Rhona: I
don’t think he’d have liked to be told what to do.
Nita: No,
he wouldn’t! He wasn’t made that way!
Rhona:
Things are completely different now – I mean, they
just are different.
Nita: When
we first came up on the 1st of July 1918, the First
World War was still on and there was practically no
cars or anything on the roads – I was only nine and my
sister was coming up fifteen and we were allowed to go
on bicycles all over the place which I don’t suppose
you would be allowed now with all the traffic around.
Ralph: No,
it was an entirely different world. You could
roam freely without the concerns of being run over.
Nita:
Absolutely! We used to go out in the boat
together or separately sometimes, without anybody
else. Nobody bothered. At the age of nine,
you could sail a boat. It was lovely on the
Broads then because there were practically no boats
except sailing boats – not an awful lot of them but
quite a few – and you could sail with impunity.
Rhona:
We’re talking about after the war now.
Nita: Well,
just after! Between the wars, we’re talking
about - from the First World War towards the Second
World War.
Ralph: Did
you know Florence Boardman well?
Rhona:
What, the old girl? Yes, we knew them very
well. We used to go up there. All the
young people were about my age and we saw quite a lot
of them.
Ralph: What
about village people? Did you get to know
village people quite well?
Rhona: Oh
yes! I knew quite a lot of village people.
If I go up the road now, I think, they’re all in the
churchyard. I don’t know many in Ludham now – I
know a lot to talk to but I don’t know who they are.
Ralph: You
knew old Sam Knights, the harness-man?
Rhona: Oh
yes, I remember him quite well.
Ralph: And
his son, Albert?
Rhona:
Certainly! It was old Albert who apparently said
to Leila Goldsmith of Potter Heigham, ‘In Doctor
Brown’s time, you could have a doctor, you could have
him any time but now you can’t be ill at the weekends
and you can’t be ill on Sundays. No, no, you could be
ill any time in his time!’ It’s semi-true but I
thought it was amusing. I mean, you do get a
doctor – they’re on duty but...
Ralph: He
was very much a character of Ludham, was Albert.
Anyone else you remember from those days?
Rhona: I
remember the Powells from the shop where the butcher
is now. Mrs Powell got shot by the German bullet
in the war. She was killed. They were
having lunch, I think. Someone said she was
passing the mashed potatoes round and this plane came
over and the bullet came in the window and got her
right in the heart, so they say. It nearly got
her daughter as well. The daughter had turned
round to see what the noise was and so it just scraped
across here, didn’t really do her much harm – just a
superficial wound.
Ralph: Did
your father have to attend the pilot who crashed here
during the war?
Rhona: No,
he didn’t.
Ralph: I
suppose they had a military doctor?
Rhona: I
should think so. He was called out sometimes
when the RAF doctor was off for the day or
something. Every now and again they would call
him up and a WAAF would come and take him down
there. He loved that and he was taken down to
the Airfield in case anything happened and one day, he
had one of these Fortresses come down – a forced
landing – and the poor man had both his hands blown
off. Of course, my father did them up and sent
him to hospital at once but that was a terrible
thing. I don’t know if that was the pilot but it
was one of the crew, anyway.
Ralph: Do
you remember the wartime in Ludham very well?
Rhona: The
Second World War? Well, we were out of the
village but we had a lot of the RAF or the army come
and have a bath at our place when they liked – which
they loved because they could come and go as they
liked and leave their things if they wanted to, and I
had a WAAF who literally made it her, you might say,
home from home. She’d leave her MUFTI there and
come and go as she liked. She had a key and I’m
still friendly with her. That was very nice and
we enjoyed that.
Ralph: That
was when you were at Red-Roof Farm? What year
did you have that built?
Rhona:
Yes! Just before the war! We reckoned if
we hadn’t had Taylor’s from Wroxham, they would have
put a tarpaulin over it until after the war and
wouldn’t have got it done. So we got it done just in
time and it was very nice.
Ralph: You
ran a fruit-farm there for many years?
Nita:
Yes! About twenty years I think. There was
a lovely story about my mother during the war at
Riverside – she used to take in the wives and the
mothers of the people in the Air force and other
things on the Airfield and she had one man – he was
the Padre and he used to come in and he was so used to
it that he’d just walk up the back stairs and have a
bath. Well, one day – it was one of these
old-fashioned baths, a bit mucky looking and she’d had
it re-enamelled and it wasn’t quite dry and he walked
up the back stairs and had a bath and you can imagine
the rest. We won’t go into details!
Rhona: Well
we didn’t see the rest, did we? I had an
evacuee, too – we only had three bedrooms. My
husband was the billeting officer and he said, ‘We’re
going to send you mothers with their small
children.’ I said,’ I’m not having a mother here
with her small children. I’ll have the small
children or I’ll have the mother but I’m not going to
have them together.’ So Ken said, ‘That’s not
very useful to me!’ I said, ‘Well, I’m just not
going to. The dear little things can make marks
on your walls and I’m not going to have them.’
We went over to Stalham to make the collection and he
came out from the Hall and he said, ‘There’s one young
mother there and she looks a nice girl and she has a
babe in arms. Would you mind that?’ I
said, ‘No!’ and he said, ‘She’s got a nice hat,
anyway!’ I always remembered that. He
never bothered about clothes a lot, did he? So I
don’t know why he thought of that but she was a very
attractive girl and I said, ‘All right! I don’t
mind that.’ And we got on fine with her.
She was terribly sweet and we saw her again last year
in London. It was very nice having her – she was
very helpful. Then one day, a Naval Officer - he
was very attractive too - came to the door and asked
if we had room to put him up too and his wife wanted
to come down. ‘Oh,’ I said, ‘I think we’re
full!’ but I thought he’s rather nice!
(LAUGHTER) So, in the end I said, ‘Well, if I
can get my woman to come and help a bit more, we’ll
have you. Otherwise, I don’t think we can manage
it. We’re very full-up.’ Anyway, I asked
my woman – I can’t remember her name now – she always
said, ‘That’s right! That’s right!’ I
asked her if she could do extra and she said she
could. When I’d fixed it all up, she came and
said, ‘My husband doesn’t want me to work
anymore.’ I said, ‘So you’re not coming at
all?’ She said, ‘No! Sorry!’ So I’d
not only not got extra help, I’d not got her at
all!’ Anyway, Thelma, the evacuee, said, ‘Well,
can’t we manage between us?’ and she said she’d do a
certain amount and we’d do it between us. So
that’s how we managed but sadly he got killed.
Nita: He
walked in his sleep! He walked in his sleep and
he walked to his death in his sleep.
Rhona: We
won’t dwell on that!
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